Tag: life
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4 Ways to Gain Courage and Confidence on Our Healing Journey
Truth to be told, when I was dealt with this mental health challenge, I really wondered where in the world am I going to summon the confidence and courage to surmount this ordeal? Thankfully, I found 4 ways that worked for me.
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Rewriting the Blame
For a long time, there was tension between us. Vicky carried immense rage and blame, particularly towards me. She believed I had allowed the sexual abuse from the relative to happen. That belief hurt deeply, especially when I had always seen myself as a victim, not a participant. But things came to a head during…
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Navigating workplace conflicts as someone with D.I.D (Part 2)
I felt in absolute control when the words rolled out of my tongue. Don’t get me wrong. I don’t mean control in a way of controlling my Head of Department nor controlling the conversation. I felt in control of my life. This feeling is liberating.
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Navigating workplace conflicts as someone with D.I.D (Part 1)
The unfortunate reality is most people believe only what they see. Sadly, they become all-knowing and speak loudly about things and people. Worse still, when a pack of them starts to enable each other, there’s no end to their toxicity. These people really make me sick in the stomach. Meanwhile, only few recognise that they…
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I was SGD40,000 in debt
Key word, “was”. Shocking, innit? How did I get into debt? I was scammed. This happened back in year 2022, when my condition was not yet stabilised. Honestly, it wasn’t even any sophisticated plan to scam me. I saw all the red flags and I remembered telling my selves to snap out of it. But…
FLKF. 